Bully! Go Away! How Do I Be Rid of You?

Psychological Effects of Bullying on Kids and Teens and How to Solve Them

Bully. Bully. BULLY!! How many kids have gone through it? Why do some children get bullied throughout their life? Why won’t anyone help? Where’s the teacher?

Firstly, we’ve all been there. The girl yanks another girl’s hair to eat her burger. A bigger, fatter boy punches another boy because he ‘crossed’ his path.

A group of kids taunt a kid that thinks outside the box. It starts at childhood, but adults haven’t grown out of putting others down and trampling their lives.

Well, what is the definition of bullying. “Unwanted, aggressive behaviour,” among school-aged children that involves power imbalance. There are several types of bullies.

First is cyber-bully. Posting ill comments about an individual in an indirect manner, or posting indecent photos of the individuals on Facebook.

Second is the power-bully. He is bigger and stronger than you, and when I’m angry, everyone runs. However, when I use a stick, all the students run. This is the common way of the power bully, using his body to scare others.

Next, a cool bully. The popular and cool kids in the school thinks they are superior and they do bad things to kids because other kids glue to them to be popular and want to be like them.

Besides, we have the verbal bully. Name-calling, cruel spoken words, and disrespectful comments about people. These are words like, “Hello, Piggy? Have u came out of the pig sty or eaten grub today?”

Next, we have relational bullying. Deliberately kicking someone out of the group. The pair can be as strong as other types of bullying and causes longer damage.

So, how do we deal with bullies? First, prevent a run-in with a bully. Just take a different path to class. Next, stand tall and be brave. Stand up to them and be brave. Stand up to these people and give them the message, don’t mess with me. Besides that, get a buddy, and make sure that you stick up for each other. Ignore the bully. Try to ignore the bully’s threats, walk into the place of safety. Lastly, don’t react. I’m not sure how good your temper is, but just don’t give the bully the satisfaction of making you angry. Lastly, tease them back. Make a sarcastic remark at all their sarcastic comments.

Lastly, how do you heal psychologically wounded bullied people! There are energy therapies for them. There are energy therapies for them. They are called The Emotion Code. It erases the impact of emotional trauma. Energy therapy treatments are really good. The energy techniques can read the brain’s energy level. Then resolve them. The person can jump in work or school after that. In conclusion, don’t be down. There are solutions for bullied people. Just smile and help will be there for you.