Self-Improvement Tips

Do I Need To Improve Myself? Self-Improvement Tips

How do I self-improve?

As a 21^st century lady, I would say the society pressures us to be perfect. We are supposed to have nice cars, have 200 likes on our posted Facebook photos, have a compatible looking partner, etc etc.

                How do we self-improve? In our personal growth type. Not just on the surface. Im talking about talking off those sun-glasses and those Pradas, ladies and gentle-maan. That’s what I meant.

                First off, we should also pick up a book and flip a few pages. Books are the centre of knowledge. We should read more and more as we age. Try books like Think and Grow Rich, The Secret, The Law of Attraction etc. The more you read, the more knowledge you gain. You get better grammar and vocabulary after reading books of the same language consistently after five to ten years, trust me. I had peers that couldn’t understand why my English was above them in school. The reason was I read thick books since young days.

                Next, learn a new language, I am a Malaysian Chinese. I know a few languages, Malay, Chinese, English and Hokkien. Although Im a Chinese, I was brought up in an English speaking family. My mother didn’t know Chinese, so I would say that among these few languages Chinese was the weakest. However, I decided to take up Korean and French classes as a hobby and interest. If it is a whole new skill altogether, and you will not regret it.

                Furthermore, pick up a new hobby. Learn a new hobby. Drawing? Knitting? Cross-stitch? Gardening? Cooking? Anything? How about a music class or art class? Music increases confidence and it also adds to your value. You can try cooking as well. Perhaps French cooking? Que voulez-vous manger aujourd'hui, monsieur? What would you like to eat today, sir? As for music classes, if increases your self-confidence and self-value. Besides that, you can pick up dancing. Salsa? Ladies a great way to gain a figure eight body. People think dancers as entertainers as shallow, but I think that dancers have a great physique, agree?

                Next, go for a new course. Interior design? How about gardening? Wedding planner? Anything at all. I didn’t like the shabby way I was a year ago, so I decided to self-improve by doing all these stuff. It was a race against another female, which I felt in competition with.

                Besides, level up your skills. If you’re good at cooking. Level up. If you’re good at sewing, time to level up. You should keep your old skills on the next level and keep trying new ones. It’s not the slogan live to impress but more like adding to your personal value. Try public speaking.

                Lastly, write a letter to yourself. Put a date on it and seal it up to be read in the future.

               

                Dear Me,

                I want to be a successful interior designer from one year from now with a five figure salary.

I will have a large network of people that I know, and also my own business name card.

I will have personal growth as well. I will be wiser, and also richer.

That concludes for today. Thanks for reading! Tune in again soon!